The rules I break when doing public speaking differently than how I was raised

I grew up around people who cared deeply about a precise form of public speaking. Although some essential concepts are relevant to this day, the world now appreciates more relaxed styles of presenting. Here are the rules I bend and why.

From dressing formally to going casual

I learned from corporate-style speakers who prioritised suits or dinner-quality outfits. There was an expectation to wear a jacket or other semi-formal sleeves. Here’s the truth. Public speaking is needed in industries and communities where a more relatable look is needed to connect with the audience. Examples could include holistic wellness and spirituality, local community groups, disadvantaged people and some forms of disabilities. All of these audiences need a speaker who can relate to them in ways beyond what the corporate training would have expected.

From polite topics of conversation to embracing controversial issues

Have you ever heard the old rule about avoiding talking about sex, religion and politics? We live in an era that needs more voices to share perspectives. Live and in-person speaking is particularly important when some online written information needs to be received with a grain of salt. People are craving real human presence for these issues and for life. Trusted speakers need to find tactful ways to embrace controversial topics when appropriate.

A new era

We live in an unprecedented post-pandemic, technological, passionately opinionated climate. New presentation styles are essential for connecting with people who hold diverse perspectives.